The Life of Amy Gregorio

Have a Heart to Help

2012-02-05T20:39:00.000-08:00

Saturdat night was the outcome of a ton of work by some of CASA's hardest working advocates. For the last year plus, they have been brainstorming and finding ways to make tonight's benefit worth it for those who attend and for those we will help. What is CASA? Court Appointed Special Advocates for abused and neglected children. Simply put: we volunteers serve the best interest of abused and neglected children on behalf of juvenile court justices. We work along with children and family services. We work with teachers and therapists, foster parents and everyone else who is involved at all with "our" children. However, we are the unbiased eyes and ears of the court. And our focus is solely on the best interest of the child. If only there were CASAs for every child in need as there are, unfortunately, so many who need a voice to speak up for them.

While the Cat is Away...

2012-01-29T20:50:00.000-08:00

John had to head to Vegas to speak at a large convention for a couple days. The kids miss him when he is gone, so I try to make it as distracting as possible. Therefore, we headed over to Villa Olivia for tubing as finally we had enough snow to cover the ground. The year before Ali was old enough to go. But, the rules changed...apparently. So, after all the anticipation and the 45 min drive to get there, I discovered said rules had changed. Ali needed to be 4. Well, she will be in about six months. Crap. With the children looking up at me, I found myself lying. This is something I am terrible at doing. So, normally, I just don't. I am a firm believer in the truth and in karma. Still, it was going to be a very disappointing 45 minute ride home. So...I lied. When they asked how old she was, I said three. And then I saw the look from the lady behind the register. "Um...but she will be four in a month (or three or six)." Ali is extremely tall for her age so...after pleading with a higher up...we got through. And it was worth the gray hairs I sprouted that night. We followed it up the next night with their first trip to Ron of Japan and a movie. They have been dead set on going to a movie in PJ's. So, we got them dressed in their bedtime duds and went to watch, "Hugo." Then home, to bed. The next day, Daddy was coming home.

Almost There!

2012-01-26T14:29:00.001-08:00

A week way from the big gala! I hope you will join us or bid online for some of the dozens of prizes. Today we gathered and packaged up the vast array of prizes we are putting up for bid during the CASABlanca Gala next weekend. This year, though, you can bid via cell phones. Just go the the CASA Lake County website and link through the gala information. Or, better yet, come do your bidding in person!

There She Is...2012

2012-01-15T19:02:00.000-08:00

Tonight several of us gathered at Jennifer's home to watch Miss America like we did the year before. There was a lot to celebrate that night before the show even got underway. And by the end of the evening, Miss Illinois had made the top ten and Miss Wisconsin became the new Miss America.

A Hundred and WHAT?

2012-01-12T19:31:00.001-08:00

104.1. Even Motrin and a luke warm bath only got her down to 103.6. Dare I tell the hubby who tends to freak out a bit over such things? Well, I am a terrible liar, so yes.
The doctors' office had us bring Ali in to check her. Fine...and then two days later-an ear infection. That's how my girl rolls. But she is such a good patient. Still sings and wants to just sleep and snuggle with you. There is something about feeling like your child needs you as part of the cure. Still, I would much rather she feel like her normal spunky self.

A Little Work is Good for the Soul and CASA

2012-01-11T19:19:00.000-08:00

The late morning was spent at the CASA offices in Vernon Hills. We called businesses who support the efforts of child advocates, while reaching out to other potential business partners. The annual gala draws closer and every donation means another opportunity to help an abused or neglected child. It is vital we raise as much as we can because Illinois does not fund CASA as 47 of the other states do. I know, I sound like a preacher, but CASA volunteers save incredible amounts of money for the juvenile courts, DCFS and dozens of other agencies who work with cases where children need to be rescued from unsafe homes. So, a little help for us to train new volunteers goes a much longer way for everyone. The afternoon was cut short when Ali spiked a nice high fever. So it was time to head home and figure out why.

Christmas Eve

2011-12-26T18:37:00.000-08:00

As per tradition, we spent Christmas Eve in Hinsdale at my sister-in-law and brother-in-law's home that is a perfect setting for a family holiday. This year there is even more to celebrate. My niece Margaret is marrying her long time beau, Philip. And my nephew John Kelly (many Johns in our family) is marrying his long time love Kelly. Yes, Kelly, as in Kelly Kelly, but she is now a full fledged Doctor so she will likely keep her maiden name. so, anyway....my SIL Lisa knows how to entertain and BIL Patrick is an so much fun for as well. If only it were Christmas Eve every night. Our kids adored their cousins and even were given some Harrods bears from London. Then it was time to pack up the kids and head back home for Santa's arrival.

It's That Time Again...YIPPEEE!!!

2011-12-24T14:31:00.000-08:00

"It's the most wonderful time of the year..." Time for our street's progressive dinner on the eve of Christmas Eve. 6 houses and 31 of us strolling between homes for apps, dinner and dessert. After we hosted the apps and cocktails as a kickoff, everyone walked down the street for dinner. There, we had a great dinner while the kids were busy down stairs with ping pong, dancing and gingerbread house decorating. Then, time for another home for Irish coffees and dessert and more gingerbread houses. Every year the kids normally skate outside on one of the houses' rinks, but it has been such a balmy Winter (dare I risk writing that?) we have no ice for skating. Next year!

Tree Hunting

2011-12-21T08:18:00.000-08:00

It is our annual tradition to head up and over to the Richardson Farm and find a Christmas tree. This year it didn't happen until a week before Christmas because we are so busy, but atleast it happened. I love this farm! They hold the World's Largest Corn Maze race and later they let us all hop on tractors in search of trees. Johnny and Ali spotted the perfect one for us and so after chopping it down, we brought it home and made it pretty. And it smells SOOOO good!

In the Midst of an Olympic Medalist

2011-12-20T21:26:00.000-08:00

This weekend Legacy and I were a part of a clinic by Olympic Gold Medalist Chris Kappler. He has a few other medals as well. He spent the time working with us on just about everything. I find riding is much like golf. There is no perfect game, nor perfect ride. It can be a perfectionist's nightmare at times. Thank God I am not one as I would lose my mind at this point;) It was a great opportunity to meet and work with Chris and in the end, he was very complimentary of Legs as he liked him a lot. That is the world as you can only be as good as your horse. But of course, he is my child....a bit large at 1300 pounds, but my child. Thanks to Laura Sterns and Country Ridge Stables for a great clinic.

School's Out!

2011-12-17T11:15:00.000-08:00

School was ushered out for the year with the holiday parties at both the nursery school and elementary school. The children had all spent hours preparing shows for us and they couldn't have been cuter. All that hard work and now...a few weeks of down time. I feel plenty of playdates in our future.

My Annual Decorating Efforts

2011-12-15T16:47:00.000-08:00

I am not a decorator. I openly admit that. There are so many talented people out there who can literally transform a room from blah to ta-dah! Not me. Given we have several fireplaces (yes, the builder must have had a thing for them), you would think I would have the ability to atleast handle the mantels. Wrong. Then Christmas arrives and I find the urge to attempt to do something creative. And so for a brief time each year, our home is transformed with lights and ornaments and basic loveliness. And so I share some of it with you as I am quite proud of my efforts. But now what to do for the other 11 months of the year? Any tips or suggestions are welcome.

All Aboard for Santa!

2011-12-11T19:47:00.000-08:00

My son has loved trains since he was able to say the word,"trains." It's an obsession I fear as he sees trains or train tracks in just about everything including a 14 ft ladder in the garage. So I scored tickets to the Illinois Railway Museum's Santa Train. Johnny and Ali were both asked to drive the train! How great is that? I figure my son will still be reliving it in his dreams for months to come. And if that didn't boggle the mind, they met Mrs. Claus and even Mr. Claus. Still, is it wrong the train ride was the big hit of the night for us in Union? It was such a great evening. I won't dare mention losing an Antler from our truck on the way home. Ouch!

My New Favorite Movie

2011-12-10T20:49:00.000-08:00

From the Christmas pageant to a gathering of Country Ridge riders at Laura Stern's home. We got together to watch the movie "Buck." What an incredible documentary about a young boy who suffered terrible abuse at the hands of his father, but through his foster family, was able to survive and change much of the horse world's thinking when it comes to training. Back in the day, horses would be broken, literally broken, to become rideable. But as Buck teaches, you must have respect from horses(or people)but that respect does not need to come through fear or intimidation. He feels a horse is a mirror to a rider's soul and what their issues may or may not be.His lessons during his clinics are lessons in life about how we all need to treat others. He played an enormous part in the outcome of "The Horse Whisperer," with Robert Redford which is another fantastic movie. My hope is more people will give this indy film a try as it is shot beautifully and winning awards. So much so, I want to go put on some cowboy boots and jeans and head out to Montana for a bit. And I'm not even kidding.

A Pageant of a Different, but Greater Kind

2011-12-10T20:39:00.000-08:00

This afternoon the children and I met with Jennifer Naida at the Glenview Community Church for their Christmas pageant. It was outstanding in so many ways and the little angels were so precious. The costuming, the choreography and efforts were so evident along with the message of the pageant itself. Jennifer used to help orchestrate the show and she was absolutely correct; it is one of the best out there to see which is why it was standing room only. Just beautiful!

Coins for a Cause...Paws of Course!

2011-12-09T16:48:00.000-08:00

Around our house you will commonly find a cup of change or two...or three. My husband tends to put the days leftover coins in those cups and over the course of a few months it begins to add up to serious cash. Add in how much my children love animals and would REALLY do anything for a dog and well, we had a holiday plan. Given our elder cat is a bit blind and slow to change, there will be no dog in our home right now, nor any new cats. So the kids took all that spare change to the bank and traded it in for 64-dollars. We then trucked over to a pet store and bought the needed goods to the Evanston Animal Shelter for the animals there who are waiting for their families to come take them home. Johnny and Ali really enjoyed the afternoon helping out in their own way. If you decide to try it, do check ahead of time with the shelters as they usually have specific lists of needs and types of food.

Ten Pounds All in the Name of CASA.

2011-12-06T08:25:00.000-08:00

Several of us gathered at the Westin Northshore to take part in a tasting for the upcoming CASABlanca gala in February for CASA of Lake County. Okay, twist my arm. It was just horrible having to try out dozens of appetizers, salads, entrees and desserts(and some wine). The worst part was deciding what to serve at the benefit as they were each so good. After all that food, we were all stuffed, but I was still able to then meet up with some of of my favorite ladies from Illinois International who chaperone Miss Illinois and Miss Illinois Teen USA. It was impossible to eat anything at that point for fear of exploding, but what a great time with Jennifer, Beverly, Sharon, Sarah and Robin. Love you all!
1)Sushi. I am not normally a fan, but all of it was so worth stepping out of my comfort zone.
2)How cute is this mini mug of tomato soup with a mini grilled cheese in the shape of a heart?

Birthdays, Tailgates and a Rivalry.

2011-11-26T13:21:00.000-08:00

From Turkey Day to my Birthday.It was a perfect day spent with my family, my horse (I know)and a fantastic dinner downtown at MK. Even the dessert, with a mini shake, was adorable. The next morning we got up and got organized. Barely. Then John, Summer, Scott and I headed over to Northwestern for the annual NU vs. MSU game. As stated before, my hubby's mom was a professor at NU and he grew up there. However, my brother played football and my sister-in-law played golf at MSU. Trash talking anyone? So we concocted a tailgate complete with jello shots (green) and Bailey's pudding shots (really great and very easy to make)and braved the cold rainy weather. We are wusses though and left at halftime to watch the rest of the game from a nearby pub where it was dry and warm.

A Bunch of Turkeys for Thanksgiving

2011-11-25T16:46:00.000-08:00

Even though we just spent the previous weekend with my family, they were able to make it up here for Thanksgiving week. The kids have so much fun together and seem to have endless energy when together. It was a blur of a time. Thanksgiving was also Lucy's official 7th Birthday. It seems like yesterday that John and I were in Carmel, IN listening to the little bells chime through the hospital, letting us know she had just been born. She is so smart and wise for her advanced age. Summer and I then took them all to see The Muppets.I know some people are die hard fans and love the movie. We, well,loved the movie from 30 years ago. Maniacal laugh...The kids had mixed reviews and they are easy critics.

Miss Illinois and Miss Teen Illinois USA 2012

2011-11-21T13:29:00.000-08:00

For the past few years, I have been a chaperone for the Miss Illinois and Miss Illinois Teen USA competitions. This year, I missed the beginning of the weekend so we could spend time with my parents. Still, you know I wouldn't miss the chance to spend time with the contestants and the other chaperones. So, I dropped off the kids at home and turned back around to head downtown for the day of finals. This year former Mrs. Illinois America Michele Barber was there with us to round out the groups of gals I adore. Every year the production crew runs a flawless show that is so well organized and even though there is only one special person who will win each title, it seems most of the others ladies have a great time and understand the journey is the most important part. Congrats to the new Miss Illinois USA Ashley Hooks and the new Miss Illinois Teen USA Alexandra Plotz. I was lucky enough to work with Alexandra back stage and she was so calm and cool. She was also very sweet and appreciative. All the ladies were a delight and I can't wait to see how the queens do at Miss USA and Miss Teen USA. Thanks to Tim Kretschmann and The Pageant Cast for these pictures as we were too busy to snap many of our own.
1)The Miss contestants in their team photo.
2)The new Queens!
3)Two of my faves, Tim Kretschmann and fellow chaperone, Robin Khayat
4)Sarah Bertrand who is just dynamite. Keep your eye on her!
5)MacDuggal and Nikki Huber in one of his designs. Nikki was in Playboy Club and has some big things on the horizon. She is somethin' special.

Fast but Fun Weekend, and Then Some.

2011-11-20T16:44:00.000-08:00

The kids and I ventured down to Carmel, Indiana for a couple days to visit my parents who came in town where my brother and sister-in-law live with Lucy and Sullivan. It was time to celebrate Lucy's 7th birthday as well. There were party hats, swimming and a ton of fun for the kids and us grown-up kids.
1)Party hats courtesy of Nana
2)Lucy's long awaited wheel chair for her American Girl doll.
3)Kiddos with Grandpa
4)Nana and crew
5)Gogles on! Time to Cannon ball.

The Big Birthday Show

2011-11-06T22:39:00.000-08:00

From a horse show to a show at the theater...with two dozen kindergarteners. Had I lost my mind? Johnny was turning six, so we thought taking his class and some other friends to see, "Puss in Boots," was a great way to celebrate. And...it was! The kids were so great and so was the movie. Now, I am not creative by nature. I must work at it. So I was thrilled to find people who could create wrappers for candy bars and cool VIP pass credentials for the kids. Each child got a box/pack with popcorn, a slurpee and candy of choice. After the flick, they had pizza and cake. The crew did a bang up job and I highly recommend giving it a try for a birthday party. Whew!

Show Time!!!

2011-11-06T20:14:00.000-08:00

It was my first horse show today and held at Country Ridge where I ride. It was a great way to try a show and compete among supportive friends. CRS is prepping for a dozen of our country's top younger riders to head in here for the EAP finals in mid-November. I was signed up for 4 classes. Two were flat classes and two were over fences. As easy as it may appear, jumping over fences is very technical as I have learned over the last several months. The angle of approach, speed and take off point are some of those important factors and that is not even considering what you are supposed to be doing while ON the horse...well, aside from staying on. One of our riders had a bad fall ending with a broken hip and a concussion. Luckily, she is recovering from surgery and will be okay. Scary though. So, my heart rate was, um, slightly elevated as I wondered why I decided this was a fun idea. It turns out my fantastic boy, Legacy, really knows how to turn it on when there is a competition and find an extra gear I had never known. I think the microphone is his cue for "Show Time!" We placed well in each class. Pat pat. And now we (Legs and I) have the first of hopefully many pretty ribbons to hang in my upstairs office. That's if my daughter doesn't keep wearing them:) Thanks to Country Ridge for allowing us to test our nerves and skills!

It Was a Boo-tiful Halloween!

2011-11-01T17:18:00.000-07:00

Each year the battle in our house seems to be finding a way to make the Halloween costumes warm enough for the cold extremes that seem to drop in just for trick-or-treating. This year, it was fairly decent. But, we were prepared!
This year Ali was set on being a Mermaid. John wanted to be a skeleton which is a far cry from the race car driver he was for a few years there. They are at such a great age for trick or treating, except Ali tends to double dip. My husband kept coaching her to get the twislers. WHAT? Any sane person knows it is all about the chocolate, hello! Luckily, the kids' schools take leftover candy and it is then donated to the local food pantry. If only I can pry my hands from the bag when I drop it all off for them!Hope you had a festive Halloween with LOTS of chocolate.

American Girl...A WHOLE New World

2011-10-28T20:21:00.000-07:00

My niece and nephew had a fall break this week and so my sister-in-law braved it up here from Indianapolis. We began at a new place in Niles called "Sky-High Sports." It has trampoline floors and even a couple of foam pits. Summer, Monica and I tried variations of flips. It was a ton 'O fun for the 4 kids, but I am not gonna lie to you; I was a bit sore about the neck and shoulders the following morning and Monica had tramp burns on the tops of her feet! Next, Summer and I took Ali and Lucy for a "Ladies Lunch," at American Girl. Now, I had heard stories about the little details of the cafe and the money dropped in the store and I wondered if it was all just urban legend. It seems I could never really grasp all that is AG. Now, I get it...a doll and a few outfits later...I get it. Those dolls have more wardrobe options than I could even think of having for a human. Bath tubs with bubbles, snow skis, scooters-it was impressive. Lucy is sooo close to being 7, but is well beyond her years. She desperately wants the wheel chair and glasses for her doll. She says she wants her to be different and very special. So, Grandma Nana now has the chair on the way for her Thanksgiving birthday. We celebrated early with quite the fanfare including cake, hats and a couple of goodie bags (for the dolls as well.)And it was so fun, we are figuring out when to do it all again. Luckily, they will be here for Thanksgiving this year!!

A New Home

2011-10-23T14:09:00.000-07:00

It took much planning and searching and fundraising, but CASA Lake County has a new home in Vernon Hills.That means more space for offices and much needed room for meetings and trainings! Now advocates and our managers will be able to do more from a centralized location instead of splitting up between the court house and the former officers which were farther away. Executive Director Terri Greenburg is the key factor in this coming to fruition. I missed the big open house as it was on John's birthday, but I was able to see it before the party and I am so thrilled for everyone.

Mom, Is It Halloween Yet?

2011-10-15T14:39:00.000-07:00

It was time for the annual Halloween tree decorating. This year the children are a year older and a year more cafeful with the ornaments I started collecting for them before they were even born.

What's For Breakfast?

2011-10-15T14:31:00.000-07:00

Thanks to the Northfield Fire Department, Saturday morning began with pancakes. This has become a yearly tradition for our family. This year, they brought in a PINK fire truck from Buffalo Grove. Her name is "Jessica," on behalf of a sixteen year old who was diagnosed with spinal cancer. She had terrible back pain which was blamed on a heavy school back pack and later on horseback riding. Then she woke up one morning paralyzed. Today, I am told, was her final dose of chemo and she is now able to walk with the aid of a walker and even on her own! Thank you Northfield Fire Department for all you do and best wishes to Jessica on a full remission and recovery.
1)They can never get enough of fire trucks!
2)Jessica and Ali
3)PINK!

Be the Change

2011-10-13T14:20:00.000-07:00

Today I spent part of the afternoon at the ITW Headquarters. The campus is gigantic! They are partnered withe the United Way and hoping to inspire their thousands of employees in Illinois to go out and volunteer. They are beginning a pilot project where they will pay employees for their time volunteered to organizations. CASA was invited to take part in their first get together. On behalf of CASA of Lake County, I, along with others from a couple of dozen other agencies and organizations had the chance to speak with some of ITW about what we do and why we do it. It was also a great way for the orgs to network with one another as well. I hope this new project takes off and inspires both employees and other companies to go make a difference!

Disney Day 4 And Wanting More!

2011-10-07T15:01:00.000-07:00

So cliche, but so true. Time flies when you're having fun. It was time for us to hit the Park Fare with Pooh, Tigger and friends for breakfast. That meant Ali was able to become a princess again while Johnny tried out the Mickey Mouse waffles. The pillow cases were jammed with signatures from most of Disney's favorites by the end of our trip. Although all the characters were great, the Mad Hatter was by far THE pick for the kids. Afterward, we took our last monorail trip (perhaps John's favorite thing to do) back to the hotel for a swim before heading for home. Ah, home sweet home. Bed sweet bed.

Disney Day 3 and Still Going and Going...

2011-10-06T14:58:00.000-07:00

Today we met our "mystery" guide at Epcot. The timing was interesting as Steve Jobs had passed away the day before. So there was a tribute to him on Spaceship Earth. What a true visionary he has been. Now, anyone who knows me will tell you I do not break the rules (often) and so what I am about to admit is...difficult. Our daughter Ali is three. BUT she is a tall 3 year old, standing at 39 1/2 inches. That last 1/2 inch was make it or break it for us at Epcot and not all the measuring devices are made equal. So, I plunked the biggest bow I could find on the top of her head. Still, Disney does not mess around. They have these measuring stick devices that all seem to be off by an inch or so. SO-I was advised to create stilts for Ali. Yes, I folded up napkins and slid them under her heels. However, in my defense, it allowed her to go "Soaring," and try out "Test Track." AND she loved it.

We followed up the day with more swimming and then Ali became her very own Cinderella. What a riot! The staff at the hotels were so gracious to her and she was sure to wave and blow kisses as she graced them all with her Princess presence.

We closed out the evening once again with an outdoor movie and then fireworks. Somehow, we managed to stay up until 9:30 each night...barely.

1)On the way in to Epcot with shirts I found through my new obsession, Etsy.
2)Yes, I too had a shirt to match and Ali had the biggest bow I could find. The taller the bow, the closer to God? Or, closer to getting on certain rides.
3)Monica replicating Ali's new signature pose.
4)Cinder-Ali

Disney Day 2 With Much To Do!

2011-10-06T14:53:00.000-07:00

It was time to introduce the kids to the magic that is Magic Kingdom!
We were so very lucky to have a private tour guide for Disney. I promised to not mention his name as he cannot be found unless you have a connection to him. He primarily works with celebs so we were very happy to have him as he made sure we never waited for a ride and he gave us all the inside tricks and history. It was a fun-filled day. Well, with the exception of Space Mountain. I didn't recall from MANY years ago that it was in the dark and perhaps a little too scary for Johnny who typically loves coasters. My husband didn't really care for it much either;) What an incredible day!
1)Kids and Monica on the way to the castle
2)With Cinderella
3)Belle
4)So excited!

We're Here! Wish You Were too!

2011-10-05T18:44:00.000-07:00

After checking in, we hit the pools and boats. Then we wandered around Disney before dinner at Chef Mickey's with his whole gang. I had pillow cases embroidered and we had characters sign them with fabric pens. It was worth the effort! We then closed out the evening watching fireworks. The hotel laid out desserts,drinks, and such and piped in the music from the show to the balconies for us.

We're Going To Disney!!!

2011-10-04T20:25:00.000-07:00

With only a few weeks of planning, we surprised John and Ali with their first trip to Disney World. We sprung the surprise a few days from take off as we knew they would have a hard time waiting any longer for a place that is hard to even attempt to describe. They were beyond excited for the limo to the airport and THEN to fly on a plane. For John and Ali, getting there really is half the fun...or so they thought! They had no idea what they were in for and luckily we had Monica with us for the trip. She is our nanny, but I don't feel that is the right title for her, so we stole a title from the show, "Flipped," and say she is Director of In-House Operations.But, even then, she is a part of our family and so she is more like a much younger sister of mine.
1)The big reveal.
2)Packed and ready to fly.
3)Ali,making sure we knew what to do in case...

Day of Learning

2011-10-01T21:00:00.000-07:00

Today child advocates through CASA from several counties along with others who work in the juvenile court system, gathered in Lake County for a day long workshop. The session helped us learn how to more effectively build relationships those we serve. Not only was the information great for the work we do as CASAs, but also great in everyday life. Michael Brandwein is an educator,speaker and author who is from Northbrook, but he has spoken on these subjects in dozens of countries and on all continents, but one (Antartica.) His insight on human behavior and conflict resolution has been taught at NASA and the CIA. One of the biggest lessons I learned was that when you are handling a big difference of opinions, the best thing to do is sit back and listen to the "other side," first. REALLY listen to what may be driving their views and then let them know you are hearing them and understanding what they have to say by summarizing what you just heard. Even if you do not agree, most times, an angry person will simmer down a bit if they feel like they are being heard and if they feel the "other side," is trying to understand their views. That's when compromise can more often be found. A simple, "Tell me more..." or "I'm interested to hear what you have to say," can work wonders. And as a CASA, sometimes you find yourself dealing with people who may be upset with the courts, DCFS, services...or just life. The workshop will hopefully help better manage those tougher times. And Michael was just fantastic! He donated his weekend to be with us because he felt the work being done on behalf of children is so important. Thank you Michael for your humor and your wisdom.

For The Men In Our Lives.

2011-09-18T14:36:00.000-07:00

A group of us family and friends were part of the SEA Blue Prostate Cancer Walk this weekend at Lincoln Park. SEA stands for S-Support E-Educate A-Advocate. Prostate cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer in American men and it is the second leading cause of cancer death for men in our country. The event was for all the men in our lives who have, who are and will be diagnosed with prostate cancer. Our team walked in honor of those we have lost to the disease like the great Don Kelly and for my father-in-law, Antone who we affectionately call, "Papa." Papa is a kind soul who gets the most joy from his family. He has battled the disease for over five years. A key treatment for him has been the use of Lupron. The drug arrests cancer and keeps it at bay, but it does not work indefinitely. Sometimes it never works, other times it does its job for 5 years before it stops performing allowing the cancer to metastasize. Once it stops working, there are limited options. Our hope is the walks will fund the research needed to discover new, longer lasting treatments so we can keep men like Papa here as long as we can.
1)Runners and walkers get ready
2)Papa and his groupies
3)Part of our team
4)John and Ali

We've Got Spirit, How 'Bout You?

2011-09-18T14:32:00.000-07:00

Saturday night was Spiritfest for Stevenson High School in Lincolnshire. SHS is one of the largest around here with 4200 students, still they manage to have an average class size of only 22 students. This year they dedicated their Spiritfest to CASA of Lake County! They had a 5K walk, a record setting glow stick word spell and fireworks. Their goal was to raise 25-thousand dollars for CASA. This money allows us to provide more services and help for the children we serve as their advocates. It also provides more training for CASAs throughout the year to keep us educated on areas of concern we may face with the families we work with during their cases. So, a HUGE shot out to Stevenson High School!

In Rememberance

2011-09-11T19:32:00.000-07:00

Today my children helped lower a flag to half staff. The questions they had about 9-11 were tough to answer so they could understand the scope of what happened. How do you explain it to a 5 and 3 year old because it could open up more questions and scare them about things like planes or skyscrapers or... So, I tried to keep it short and honest. I told them some very angry people hurt and killed many, many people in our country. After some deeper and more specific questions, my daughter simply replied, "Well, that was not very nice of them." Nope.

Like everyone else today,I think about and pray for those lost on 9-11 and for those they left behind because of evil intentions. Has it really been ten years since we watched, worried and mourned the loss of lives and our country's innocence?

Where were you? Most of us adults know exactly where we were. My mom called just before the news station. Instantly, I knew this was no accident and my instincts told me it was far from over. Those instincts have almost always been right, so I felt sick at the same time. This was going to be really horrific.

I was the crime reporter at WISH TV and was already familiar with those in the midst of devastation. If you have ever held someone at a time of absolute and desperate grief...you understand. You hold them, you allow them to fall apart in your arms. They are tortured over the minute details of those final moments of those lost loved ones. Every...final...detail. There are no answers. There are no solutions to ease their pain. And this was on a much larger scale, so how do you hold up an entire country? And unless you are there in person, you can never imagine just how it truly feels there. I know I couldn't. Those on 9-11 in NY, PA, and D.C. know it all too well.

And so, ten years later, we remember those lost, the loved ones who navigate life in a different way,and for our world that is now very changed. Our young children will never know the world as most of us adults once did. That is incredibly sad. But then we are also reminded of our resilience. We are proof of being stronger and through hope, we will continue forward.

Ali's Turn!

2011-09-07T08:43:00.000-07:00

Every day Ali asks if she gets to go to school today like her big brother. Finally, that day has come. And in spite of my pleas for her to walk, she spints down the hall to her classroom. Her teacher is simply wonderful and a southern girl herself. She greets each child with a hug and some of us parents even get one!

Camp Out!

2011-09-06T09:01:00.000-07:00

To celebrate Labor Day, our club has an annual camp out. My brother and sister-in-law came in from Indy with our niece and nephew. The four kids ADORE each other and are a tight as can be. Being the man-folk may not survive the night in a tents, we women took on the task of sleeping overnight in a tent with the kids. There is usually swimming, an outdoor movie, smores and fireworks. But this year, the day decided to bring a few showers. We were happy when the skies cleared in time for the huge fireworks show. Aunt Summer gave the kids matching glow-in-the-dark pj's which were just about as cool as the show. The next morning we felt surprisingly OK and although it rained throughout the night, we were dry and ready for the camp out breakfast.

New Year, New School

2011-08-29T11:37:00.000-07:00

Today Johnny made his way through the halls of his elementary school. He was welcomed by the school mascot and posed for pictures with his amazing principal who is adored by all. I wish there was adult kindergarten. Spanish twice a week, gym every other day, snack time, art,music,class animals...and the smell of all those new school supplies! His school slowly integrates them into a full day which is great. I just have to keep an eye on the calendar and times right now, which scares me. We are so fortunate that we live in an area where the schools are incredible along with the staff.

It's a wrap!

2011-08-27T07:41:00.002-07:00

Much like the cliche, "All good things must come to an end," Summer is on its way out here. But did it really ever show up this year? And so it is time to usher in a new season, known affectionately by many parents, called, "the school year." This time it's for real. Johnny is heading into kindergarten and to do so seems to require much organization and scheduling of multiple doctors appointments in order to gain access to the school. After the dreaded vaccinations and clean bills of health, it was time to live it up. We bid a farewell to the lazy "Summer," by visiting Six Flags. A few days later we visited the Brookfield Zoo where the Carousel and the dolphin show remain the big hit. Needless to say, I am worn out and ready for school. The kids,of course, are ready for more adventures!

What Day Is It?

2011-08-25T19:45:00.000-07:00

Johnny is heading into kindergarten and to do so requires much organzation and scheduling of doctors appointments. Vision, dental and the dreaded vaccinations are the only way to gain entry to school. Ali decided she was ready for it all if it meant going to school with her brother. It's hard to answer your son when he keeps asking if he is going to get shots from Dr. Michelle. You can't lie, but the truth may require advanced MMA techniques to get him out of the car and into the office.So, I played blonde. "I'm not sure, John. Dr. Michelle will know. Say! Want to go bowling afterward?" He survived and both John and Ali are ready to go, although Ali doesn't seem to understand she will not be going to the "big kids'school." Atleast not yet.
1)Ali thinks the dentist is great! for now...
2)John gets a look at his adult teeth waiting to come on down in the upcoming months.
3)Legs got his teeth taken care of as well.

Congratulations Brittany!

2011-08-22T07:41:00.000-07:00

This weekend the Aceto's helped usher in this next new phase of adulthood. Julie hosted a college graduation party at her home for her niece. Brittany has true talent. I heard her sing the national anthem years ago and I expect to see her on the big stage in years to come. It was great catching up with everyone including a few other former Mrs. Illinois' and Mrs. Illinois 2011 Zara Johnson and her handsome hubby Hank.
1) Julie and Brittany
2)Julie's back patio which is perfect for get togethers during the warmer months.

One More trip Down the Road

2011-08-13T09:47:00.000-07:00

It was a bit of a gamble, but I took my chances and it was worth it. I took Ali with Jennifer to the Galaxy pageant which was again, just down the street. Ali is that child who,at 3yrs old, picks out princess shoes for her pajamas which she also selects. She believes in all things "princessy," and sparkly. So what better place than a stage filled with such things? We went to support our friend Robin Khayat (Ms. U.S. Galaxy) who I got to know while chaperoning Miss Illinois USA. There were a few other ladies competing that I've gotten to know including Jayne Black, Ginny Meerman, Wendi Russo and Kellie Lightborn who were all fabulous as ever. Congrats to everyone and to the new queens.

My New Man

2011-08-03T09:40:00.000-07:00

Allow me to introduce you to MY new man. He is very tall, dark,handsome and about 20+ years worth of waiting. I barrel raced back in the day, but there was very dangerous accident involving my very young horse rearing with me. She just kept coming on back...on top of me. Later, another horse I was riding for someone kicked the teeth out of a friend. My parents had me hang up the stirrups and told me to go to college, get a job and afford the danger myself:( Fast forward through years of working and moving, getting married and having children. Finally this year I felt it was time to get back in the saddle, only this time it's on an English saddle. After some heavy campaigning by myself and even friends, John gave in to the idea of burning money for a hobby I can't resist. And so this is Legacy, also known as Legs. He's a gorgeous (biased mom here) Hanoverian and an accomplished hunter who is SAFE. And as my mom says, he's the additional child I couldn't have. He is a little piece of heaven, as is everyone at Country Ridge Stables.

Y'all Come Back Now, Hear?

2011-07-28T19:33:00.000-07:00

This week was a fast one. After arriving back home from visiting my parents down south, I got the abode ready for friends coming in for Mrs. International. It was so great to spend an evening with Some great ladies I have had to honor of getting to know over the last few years along with some long time friends. Girl power for sure with a favorite side of Tim Kretschmann.
1)Gerri Walczak and Michelle Allen-Parker
2)Post-show debriefing and catching up.

Baby Bellamaya

2011-07-15T07:35:00.000-07:00

We been busy adding "babies" to our family. First, is two year old Bellamaya. She's extremely fast and got the bullet during her recent breeze for the fastest time out of 2-dozen horses. She's a big girl who really likes to eat and gains weight without a problem. She fits in perfectly!

Volapalooza

2011-07-11T13:18:00.000-07:00

I was honored to serve as the MC for the very first Volapalooza held at the College of DuPage. Months of planning and organizing went into celebrating the joy of giving and the spirit of volunteerism. Giving DuPage, Community Memorial Foundation and the DuPage Foundation Foundation along with wonderful sponsors like Harris Bank awarded generous grants to some of DuPage County's non-profit organizations which are lifelines to so many in need of assistance. Micheal Jordan's mom, Deloris Jordan, spoke about the James R. Jordan Foundation and how they are helping needy schools improve and teaching families to become proactive with education. Wheaton’s own Dick and Florence Nogaj are authors of, “Don’t Retire, Get Inspired: One Couple’s Extraordinary Journey to Make a Difference.” And a "vocal," point of the evening was The West Towns Chorus.They are such sweet gentlemen and some have been with the singing barber shop style group for almost 40 years! Congratulations to the award winners as well as all those giving of themselves to help others.
1)Rehearsals
2)Florence Nogaj
3)The West Towns Chorus

Happy Fourth of July!

2011-07-05T11:24:00.000-07:00

It is our family tradition to celebrate our country's birthday with the annual village parade. Hundreds of children lined up and walked or rode through the streets to the baseball fields where they had races and moon walks. Johnny won 1st place and Ali was 2nd in their age groups. And of course at night we took in some amazing fireworks. I love that our children are old enough now to really appreciate the fourth. Hope your holiday weekend was fun and safe!

My Michelle!

2011-06-27T10:11:00.000-07:00

It was last minute, but I was so happy to have my best girl, Michelle, in for a brief weekend. She came from Nashville to take part in a 5K walk/run for Rainbows. The organization helps kids dealing with life changing circumstances in their lives such as a deployment or death. We kicked off her visit at Morton in Northbrook and also had the chance to head to Arlington park for an afternoon. Miss you Michelle and see you soon!
1)The kiddos WAITING and checking watches for Michelle to arrive...finally!
2)Mortons!

Dekadent Diva Launch Party

2011-06-13T08:35:00.000-07:00

A huge congrats to Nikki Kaapke and the successful launch of "The Dekadent Diva." She has created a lifestyle brand of sorts which includes a blog, a cook book and clothing line focused on hip entertaining and cupcakes. We were able to be there as she celebrated her hard work. Need some great ideas? check out her website!
http://thedecadentdiva.blogspot.com/

She's finally here!!!

2011-06-12T08:29:00.000-07:00

Welcome Summer! We are so glad you could make it...finally! May you be enjoying this season and getting outside for a bit.

Has she lost her mind?

2011-06-06T20:31:00.000-07:00

My sister -in-law Summer took on her first triathlon and so we ventured to Indiana to go cheer her along. We lined up the trucks and kiddos and were so thrilled for her. She did it and looked fabulous doing it if I don't say myself. So good, I felt inspired to contemplate a tri. So there are a few coming around in a couple months that Summer may join me on now that she has this thing down. So proud of her and afterward the kids followed her around like the Goddess she is. Congrats!

Happy Birthday Ali!

2011-06-02T20:22:00.000-07:00

My baby girl is three going on 30! Well, maybe 16 as she got a set of wheels, pink of course. Now she can keep up with Johnny and his Jeep. Where did the time go?

Beautiful Benny

2011-05-24T12:46:00.000-07:00

Today I went to "Gifted," so I could pick up gifts for a few of the VIP's in my childrens' lives, their teachers. I visit the store in Lake Forest once a week after riding. They are so funny and kind even though I smell a "bit," like a horse. This time I notice a box filled with rubber bracelets for brain tumors and child cancer. There were also some in purple, marked "Benny's World," in orange with a note reading "Benny's Favorite Colors Were Purple and Orange." I asked one of the ladies at the counter, "Who is Benny?" She told me it was her son who died at 5 years old from a brain tumor this past September. To help honor his life and help other families like Benny's, they began Benny's World and are doing so many wonderful things around here in his name. I urge you to take a look inside his world and even buy a bracelet or two (or several like I did)to help fund research to cure pediatric brain tumors. www.bennysworld.org

New York, New York!

2011-05-22T12:39:00.000-07:00

I was a spokesperson for a major car company while in college. That meant I travelled around the country about 110 days a year. One of those places I ventured to each year was New York City. It was my favorite two weeks of each year. That was a long time ago and I have only since returned for a wedding or two. So it was great to get back and take in all the changes. This weekend I met up with one of my favorite friends for a night in NYC and a show. Lori Thomas Donaudy and I became friends during our stint at Mrs. United States. Lori was the one who would make sure I had gotten critical info and paperwork from the national office that for some reason was not making it to me. Since then, she has proven to always have my back and I admire her in so many ways. Plus, she is a take charge business woman who is a person of her word. She is a mover and shaker in the NY PR world and extremely busy all the time, so getting to catch up in person was priceless. We took in "Priscilla Queen of the Desert." Hilarious show and some great legs on those guys. But the best part was Lori.

1)Lori and me pre-show.
2)Bright Lights, Big (beautiful)City

And Once Again~

2011-05-16T14:30:00.000-07:00

So TODAY was the annual Shriners's fashion show at Drury Lane in Oak Brook. I had shown up there in April to only realize I had the wrong month. Maddie Sell, Miss Illinois Teen All American was there. She is so smart, beautiful and looks great in everything. We referred to the runway as, "Ohare," because it was incredibly long like an airport runway. But that was good because it meant they had dozens of tables of women who were there to help usher in Spring (where is it?) and the Shriners. Again, I cannot say enough about the men and women who are a part of the work done by the Shriners for children in medical need.

A Little Piece of Itay

2011-04-28T12:24:00.000-07:00

This evening I was honored to be a part of annual Joint Civic Committee of Italian Americans (JCCIA.) JCCIA serves as a congress for more than 65 Italian American organizations and are part of a host of good deeds and scholarships. My hubby is Italian and so are the Aceto's who are the directors (and the best!)of the Mrs. Illinois America pageant. I walked the runway with Mona Savard who is the wife of hockey great, Denis Savard. What a fantastic lady. Julie Aceto and I were kept busy beforehand trying on all the wares from the many boutiques which were part of the evening event. Love my new sunglasses Julie. Now, if only we could cue the sun to show...
1) Drury
2)Mona and me pre-catwalk

Shriners-Well, not today.

2011-04-16T19:20:00.000-07:00

I have been invited to walk the runway in Oak Brook to help raise funds for the Medinah Shriners. The Shriners will always be close to my heart as they have been since I was a teen. Through the Shriners Hospital for Children, they fund medical research and treatment to children up to 18 years old regardless of their ability to pay. Years ago I was able to tour their Chicago hospital and the work they were doing then and what they are accomplishing now, is miraculous. NOW, for the funny part.I arrived to find I arrived on the wrong month!Turns out, I should be there in May. It all worked out though. The Aceto's were down the road with Mrs. Illinois Zara Johnson, Miss Teen Illinois All-American Maddie Sell and Miss Young Teen Illinois All-American Kennedy Neiwolny. They were busy meeting and greeting at Brizan Couture. Zara filled me in on her time at Mrs. America and we were able to watch the girls try on some fantastic dresses at Brizan. Lisa Neiwolny was also there so we all were able to catch up and get a group shot.

Go Illinois!

2011-04-12T19:50:00.000-07:00

Mrs. Illinois 2011, Zara Johnson has spent the last two weeks in West Virginia at the reknowned and renovated Greenbrier Resort. She, along with 50 other women are competing for Mrs. America, which has kept them just a little busy. Zara has been golfing, fishing, building homes and rehearsing. She also says she has been having the time of her life there. Zara is one of those women you meet and immediate love. She has this incredible grace about her and a presence. As a wife, mother and grandmother, Zara is someone very special for the Mrs. Illinois family. Here's to you Zara! Good Luck!

Mr. CASAnova

2011-04-11T09:03:00.000-07:00

I was asked to judge the annual Mr. CASAnova contest at Lake Forest College. It is organized by the Theta sorority and one of the college's largest student fundraisers. The Theta's national platform is CASA and their efforts were a large success. Although I was forewarned this was a college event containing men in swimsuits, I could not refuse a chance to see just how creative theynwould get to raise money for abused and neglected children. We judged opening number, swim, talent, evening wear and on stage questions AND it was a blast.
1)Rehearsals
2)The winner

A Strut with Purpose

2011-04-10T07:39:00.000-07:00

This weekend I was asked to be a part of the annual fundraising fashion show for the Naperville Junior Women's Club. I gotta tell you, it is a little uneasy to hit the catwalk with professional models who are 6 feet tall and a 110 lbs;) But that is why they are the professionals and I am SOO not. But who could turn down a chance to assist the NJWC who helps provide programs for the homeless in DuPage County. Given these economic times, their efforts are needed more than ever as people get back on their feet again.

Watch Out Wisconsin!

2011-04-01T20:06:00.000-07:00

Easter is fairly late this year, which means Spring Break for schools are all over the place. We opted to avoid the crowds of a destination such as Disney and stayed closer to home. Still, it's been cold, rainy and sometimes snowy here in Chicago. That's why we packed up the kids and headed to the Wisconsin Dells. I have never been to the Dells, but they have these enormous indoor water parks within a dozen or so resorts. John was heading out to D.C. and had a couple of big cases hitting so, we left him behind, but brought Monica and Jennifer with us for extra fun and supervision. We picked the Kalahari (the indoor park is 6-football fields large!) and proceeded to wear out the kids for a couple of days on the water slides, go-karts and arcade games. Ah, what we do for our children;)

Girls Gone Wild

2011-03-28T11:35:00.000-07:00

This morning, four of us girls met up for the Presidential Towers race. We were part of a relay team that climbed the four presidential towers for the American Lung Association. Each of us was assigned a tower to climb and one-by-one we ascended the steps to the top. We also took Flat Stanley along with us who rode on our backs. He was a bit wiped out by it all;) as were the many other Flat Stanley's we met there. Here is Stanley with firefighters who climbed in full gear!

A Little (and Steep) Piece of Heaven on Earth

2011-03-11T12:36:00.000-08:00

This week was spent in Snow Mass, Colorado with our neighbors at their new home. It was spectacular. To be able to snap on skis and head from the house to the lifts is the way to do it right! We had an amazing time skiing and the mountain air guarantees a great night of sleep. Check out these views and these great lanterns in the kitchen. I was in love with everything in Colorado.

Skating in the Sky

2011-03-03T12:44:00.000-08:00

While I was at the top of the Hancock for the Hustle, I found out the kids could go skating up there! So we headed downtown, strapped on skates and skated at the top of the Hancock. They had a great time!

Do the Hustle!

2011-02-28T19:29:00.000-08:00

It was time to Hustle Up the Hancock again. It meant climbing 94 floors for the Respiratory Health Association. It always starts out okay. Then, about 20 floor in, I wonder why I did not sign up for the half-climb. well, because I can do it while others cannot, which is why thousands of us climbed to the top a step at a time. We were rewarded with medals, an incredible view of Chicago and knowing we had helped with the research and treatments for those with respiratory issues such as asthma and lung disease.

Congratulations To our New Mrs. Illinois America!

2011-02-12T10:47:00.000-08:00

Zara Johnson is our new Mrs. Illinois and she is already a queen. She is a mother, grandmother and breast cancer survivor. Zara emanates sophistication and class. There is a special sparkle to her and a genuine warmth. I know the Aceto's will have a tremendous year with her and her husband, Hank.

Words of Gratitude Are Not Enough.

2011-02-12T09:00:00.000-08:00

This weekend was the Mrs. Illinois America pageant and time to welcome a new Mrs. Illinois to the family. There are so many people that have been instrumental over this last year and it is impossible to thank every person. Here is my love letter to each of you in the form of a video. And a couple of pictures from this year's big night.

Gown and Crowns

2011-01-22T13:11:00.000-08:00

This afternoon my husband was freezing his buns off at the Bears/Packer's game. Meanwhile, I was with Julie and Marcie Aceto in Oak Park for a showing of Mac Duggal's new prom line. Mac is an Illinois gown designer who started in a house a few decades ago. Now, he is a name known to many ladies in need of something beautiful to wear for a special event. The show was hosted by "That Girl," boutique which is also a long time sponsor of Mrs. Illinois America. I was able to spend time with more than 60 high school girls who were wearing Mac Duggal's designs. They are all so lovely and have so many great plans for their futures. They did a great job on the catwalk. We had a great time watching them shine. It's hard to believe we are already talking about prom as it's only January!
1)Mac and me before the show
2)With the ladies in red
3)Can you believe these gals are only in high school?

Miss America

2011-01-18T13:09:00.000-08:00

This evening a group of us gathered at my dear friend's house to watch Miss America. Jennifer Naida was the perfect hostess and even designed score cards for us. I brought these adorable cake pops made by creative genius Monica Kieres. Miss Arkansas (who is from my parents' town of Ft. Smith)was first runner-up and Miss Nebraska (and only 17 years old!) became the new Miss America. Congrats to Teresa Scanlin and to Michele Strom from the Winning Crown Boutique in Nebraska who helped her get ready for the job. Michele helped me find my gown for Mrs. Illinois America and also helped me with hair and make-up for interview out at Mrs. America. She and her team are getting to be very successful on the national level which is no surprise. Well done ladies!
1)Cake anyone?
2)The new Miss America is...
3)I took this shot from Michele. This Michele and Teresa at Miss America before she became Miss America. Both are breathtaking!

A Happy and Healthy 2011 to You!

2011-01-05T13:20:00.000-08:00

We rang in the New Year down south near Naples, Florida where it felt a bit like the Midwest. Burr, it was cold the first few days we were in Florida with frost on the golf course every morning. So the kids caught up with Scooby Doo 3-D. Finally it warmed up enough to swim and hit the beach with some of our family. It was a great way to usher in 2011. I hope you welcomed the New Year with loved ones as well.

Merry Christmas

2010-12-25T14:06:00.000-08:00

Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas! It is always a great way to celebrate family and the blessing we have in our lives. We hope you and your family are happy, healthy and surrounded by love this season.
1)Our family
2)The kids about to tackle the gifts
3)Ali with her boa, of course.
4)My new golf bag from my husband in honor of the fight against breast cancer. Sweet, huh?

Christmas Eve and a surprise visitor

2010-12-24T13:01:00.000-08:00

This year we spent Christmas Eve at my sister-in-law's beautiful home in picturesque Hinsdale. Lisa is the best at carrying off large numbers of family effortlessly! We had a great time spending the evening with all the family including our nieces and nephew. As they all attended mass later that night, we were busy getting our kiddos into bed back at our home. And just in time for Santa to arrive! The kids were able to watch quietly as a few presents were left by Mr. Claus. I only wish they will believe in that magic for as long as possible.

Party On!

2010-12-18T12:59:00.000-08:00

Today was the last day of school for my children who will have the next few weeks off for the holidays. They celebrated with class concerts for us family members as they took on the likes of "Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer," and other holiday classics. Now it's time to plan the many ways to keep the kids occupied until the school bell rings once again. When is that again?

I Vant Your Blood...

2010-12-12T14:31:00.000-08:00

Giving blood is so simple and yet, so critical. We all need it and right now there are serious blood shortages. My dear friend Jennifer Naida has a background in the medical field and was asked to be part of a blood drive through Life Source. It was outside the Illinois Nut and Candy Company in Skokie which has amazing treats. And in spite of blizzard conditions, people came out and donated. You never know who you may touch as I was told my donation alone would help 6 others in need. So, this giving season, consider giving a little bit of you!

The Polar Exress and the Giving of Your First Born

2010-12-11T14:37:00.000-08:00

Aunt Jennifer is the best! She is the only reason we were able to secure tickets to the annual Polar Express in Round Lake. She is a resident there and that is basically the only way to get a ticket, or 5. Back in October we went to get them and they wouldn't let her buy tickets as the kids do not live with her. They apparently take this VERY seriously. In the end and after a call or two, we got them and waited until this weekend for the big train ride. Papa was able to come with us and everyone was able to spend some time with Santa while riding to Fox Lake and back. Santa said we were all, except Papa, on the good list;)Ha! Papa is like Gandhi. It was a cute and quick trip I hope the kids will remember. Thank you Jennifer again, for getting those prized tickets!
1)Bundled up and waiting for the train.
2)The Polar Express;John's favorite place
3)Santa!
4)Ali was not so sure about Santa at first
5)Ali got over it and wanted to hug the big man.
5)Jennifer with Ali, her new best friend.

Good News!

2010-12-03T14:33:00.000-08:00

Johnny's nursery school is always teaching the children to think outside themselves, which I LOVE. So today Johnny's pre-k class made cookies from scratch to then give to the Good News Mission in Chicago. Whether it is keeping them from eating the raw dough or keeping hands away from hot surfaces, it can be a tricky feat when you have more than a dozen 5 year olds "helping." But we all survived, safely!

Zipping, Tying and Gluing

2010-11-24T16:28:00.000-08:00

This week several of us chaperoned the Miss Illinois USA and Miss Illinois Teen USA pageant. This was my second year, but for most of the others, they have chaperoned for years. It was a privilege to be part of a weekend of dreams. 200 young women from all over the state found themselves undergoing quick panel interviews and then on stage for swimsuits and gowns. There has to be something in the water because these ladies were stunning and sweet. And charitable! They brought over 700 coats that are now in missions around Chicago just in time for our winter weather. One contestant brought over a 100 coats! Even though Trump may want the focus purely on looks and sex appeal as we heard over the weekend, these girls have much, much more to offer and I hope they never negate that.
Congratulations to Miss Illinois 2011, Angie Sparrow and Miss Illinois Teen USA 2011, Paige Higgerson. We'll be watching for you at nationals!

1) With Jennifer Naida...Mrs. Illinois America 2010 and Mrs. Illinois International 2010. Yes, we are friends;)
2)Some of the teens lined up for opening number
3) The BEST chaperones ever!!
4)A few of the Miss
5)Load of coats

Community Baby Shower for MOD

2010-11-17T18:26:00.000-08:00

In honor of Prematurity Awareness Day and Prematurity Awareness Month, the March of Dimes Illinois Chapter hosted a Community Baby Shower at Rush Medical Center and I was invited. After collecting baby clothing, toys and baby products for expectant families, the gathering of items was then distributed to organizations assisting low-income and/or high risk pregnant women in the Chicagoland area. Sorority, Zeta Phi Beta, organizes the Storks Nest which does just this for high school students. As sweet as it was to organize those itty bitty baby items and even buy a few for the day, it is also a reminder that many families find themselves grappling with the sudden arrival of a premature baby and all the complication that can bring.
The day was spent listening and learning from experts on advances concerning prematurity and meeting mothers who had survived a lifetime of heartbreak including one mom who had twins at 25 weeks. Seven weeks after their early arrival she lost her newborn son, but his twin sister is healthy and thriving today. And there are some advances on the horizon to help understand prematurity and ways to prevent it with even talk about pro biotic foods etc that may be more important than we realized.
When I went into preterm labor at 29 weeks, John and I were told very clearly of the issues at hand. But then we were very quickly we informed about brain bleeds, developmental delays etc, and we were told every week was so very important to our unborn child. So, we found ourselves heading to Prentice. There was nothing worse than being stuck in heavy traffic on the Ryan (construction) in absolute silence. We were very lucky with some extra time. My water broke at 37 weeks which is now considered late preterm.
But there are doctors out there who will induce labor for women before 39 weeks. Granted, our strong willed daughter does not stop talking/singing and has a fierce opinion about her clothes already, but that is not always the case for even babies born at 37 weeks. So the March of Dimes is working hard to encourage states and doctors to hold off until 39 weeks gestation unless medically necessary as it is still regularly done elsewhere. Let me tell you, my Gynie is AMAZING and is apparently even Oprah's Dr. Her practice will NOT induce until 39 weeks unless there is an amnio first. So to learn of women electing to have babies a few weeks early to get it over with already is...insane to me as I know we were freaking out a bit with Ali. Given family and friends have weathered MUCH more difficult situations, we were fortunate. So for that, I am eternally grateful and I am eternally hopeful for those we love and their children.

CASAblanca VII

2010-11-16T11:54:00.000-08:00

It was an honor to serve as emcee for CASAblanca VII this year. As appointed court advocates for abused and neglected children, CASAs are the eyes and ears for the judges who must make tough decisions when it comes to where a child should live or not live. Although almost EVERY state gives millions of dollars a year to their CASA programs, Illinois DOES NOT. Yet, CASA programs save millions of dollars a year and they help take off just a little bit of the burden placed on social services. Most importantly, CASA's are there to always and only look out for the best interests of a child and make sure a child gets therapies, treatments and support. This is critical when you consider what some of these beautiful beings have already endured.

So! It was a humbling honor to emcee the event which raises much need money for these kids who deserve a chance to dream big and reach those dreams.

1)With Jeremy and singer Debra Romer who was a finalist on this past season of America's Got Talent. Both were children who grew up in foster care. Both have incredible stories of success.
2)The enormous ballroom as the gala got underway

Burrr!!!!

2010-11-14T11:53:00.000-08:00

...and from Hoffman Estates to Burr Ridge. It was the annual Jingle Mingle parade and tree lighting. It is also a yearly tradition for Mrs. Illinois. This year, Miss Junior Teen Illinois All-American (and 2nd runner-up to Miss Junior All-American)Taylor Anne Marie Ignoffo was also part of the evening. There was a parade, tree lighting and story telling along with train rides and reindeer! I would have loved to stay for it all, but I had to be 45 minutes away to emcee the annual gala for CASA in Wheeling. Thank you to the Aceto's for arranging a Corvette for the night time parade and for braving the bitter cold. Thank you to Taylor for handling the night with such poise and polish.
1)With Marcie before the parade
2)With Taylor, Miss Junior Teen Illinois.

Wear What??

2010-11-14T10:33:00.000-08:00

Today began in Hoffman Estates for the Barrington Junior Women's Club's Fall fundraiser. Former Mrs. Illinois contestant and 2009 runner-up, Darby Hill, was the event chair! I was asked to stroll the catwalk in fall fashions which apparently also includes some lycra courtesy of Lululemon. Now, I love Lululemon, but that was an extremely LONG runway to do in spandex and flats. But, all for a good cause. Darby, your event was a huge success and thank you to Tracey Tarantino of Zzazz Productions for including me.

A True Treasure

2010-11-11T14:22:00.000-08:00

It's here!!! Each year, Mrs. Illinois is given a medallion necklace with the Mrs. America trademark on it. This has been a Mrs. Illinois tradition for 30 years and I am told Illinois is the only state allowed to do this. James and Williams designed a one-of-a-kind piece for me with diamonds and they even had hand made cut outs done on it. They really outdid themselves. They told me someone used very small tools for the carving of those letters! Bill, thank you again for your vision and your generosity as it is a true treasure.

Worth the Trip

2010-11-10T13:18:00.000-08:00

This afternoon Marcie and Julie Aceto and I went to Worth, Illinois to the long standing boutique called, "That Girl." They are a sponsor of Mrs. Illinois and it was terrific being able to meet the owner, Ann. She has such a great selection of dresses for homecoming, prom and other such events in life.

Making the Holidays Merrier!

2010-11-09T13:27:00.000-08:00

Here is a great way to spread some cheer AND help out Children's Memorial Hospital! You can order your Holiday cards, calendars, mugs and such through Children's and tinyprints.com and a portion of the proceeds will go to the hospital here in Chicago that creates miracles everyday for families in crisis.

Dream A Little Dream for St. Jude

2010-11-07T19:22:00.000-08:00

St. Jude has done extraordinary work for children and their families for nearly 50 years. This afternoon was a testament of that. Some of the Mrs. Illinois America family gathers each year to attend the annual St. Jude luncheon in Chicago and it was sold out this year! More than 1300 people were a part of the fundraiser for the research hospital to help it treat, cure and prevent pediatric cancers and terminal diseases. I was asked to select and announce the winners of the grand raffle and found myself seated with Marlo Thomas. Her famous father,Danny Thomas, started St. Jude and is quite the star and author herself AND very funny!
We were also seated with the day's emcee Allison Rosatti from NBC5. Through my work in news, I had not met Allison as she is an anchor and therefore rarely outside the studio for stories, so it was about time we met in person! Just as I had been told before, she is a doll. We three had the good fortune to spend the afternoon with St. Jude Special Guest, Marget Graham. At only one year old, Marget was diagnosed with a rare inoperable neuroblastoma tumor which brought with it, only a 10% rate of survival. St. Jude stepped in and after a year of treatments, she was able to return home as the only survivor or her age group. Today, she is a mom to a little girl (who is PRECIOUS) and she has twins on the way this spring. And thanks to another 30 years of research, neuroblastoma now has a survival rate of 55% which is a big improvement.
It was a wonderful and inspiring afternoon. Thank you St. Jude for asking me to be a part of it!
1)Aren't they adorable?
2)The ballroom
3)Love her skirt!
4)with Marlo Thomas and Allison
5)Marcie Aceto, Julie Aceto, me, Michele Barber (Mrs. IL '03),Krista Cline,and Karen Lea Cline (Mrs. IL '98)
6)With newly re-elected Secretary of State, Jesse White

Happy Birthday Baby!

2010-11-05T22:04:00.000-07:00

Johnny is now 5 years old. Every year I find myself perplexed as to how another year has passed so quickly. Here we are again. We celebrated with some of his buddies at Pinstripes where they bowled for a bit. I thought it would be a GREAT idea to have a sparkler on his cake. It WAS a great idea, until I lit it! Those things throw some serious smoke. I hate to admit this mom found herself frantically trying to blow the sparkler OUT (which is no easy feat)as the smoke alarms were about to kick in, so I blew out my son's candles as well. Do as I say and not as I did and don't put sparklers on cakes;)
1)Ali, Johnny and a buddy anxiously awaiting the cake. Note the sparkler.
2)Bowling with the boys.

My Halloweenies!

2010-10-31T21:53:00.000-07:00

This year Johnny wanted to go as...drum roll please...a race car driver-AGAIN. So that was simple. Ali decided a while back she wanted to be her favorite food group-a cookie. Last year they were down with strep, so this was Ali's big year to begin begging for the good stuff;) And so, along with our neighbors, we strolled the chilly streets in search of candy. The bigger kids counted and categorized their loot. I was amazed at the mass of treats in one living room and I know I gained atleast 5 pounds just looking at it! We then all had dinner together while waiting for the sugar crashes to begin. Still waiting....

Walking and Talking

2010-10-17T16:40:00.000-07:00

This morning I was part of a walk in Libertyville for breast cancer through the American Cancer Association. I, along with about 40 others, were part of the team, "Walking For the Girls." There were well over a thousand of us who walked five miles and raised more than a hundred-thousand dollars!! A shout out to Maureen Quaid. She has done both the Komen and Avon walks for more than a decade and has raised well over a 200-thousand dollars. She was the captain and organizer for our team and as a 4-year breast cancer survivor, she is always an inspiration with such positive energy.
1)Team "Walking for the Girls."
2)Maureen and Jill
3)Some of us on the journey

Falling Into Fashion

2010-10-16T21:46:00.000-07:00

Today I found myself walking a very long runway with T's at both ends in an enormous room filled with hundreds of women...AND with some very tall and very slender women who really know how to strut their stuff. They were so kind in giving me tips on how to work it, or attmept to. We were in Lombard at The Carlisle for an afternoon of fall fashion and fundraising through the Holy Apostles Philoptochos which exemplifies the true spirit of philanthropy. The annual benefit helps the degenerative neurological disorder called Batten Disease which affects children and young adults. It reminds me of a darling little girl in Indianapolis named Emily who lived such a beautiful and impactful life with Batten. Her parents have done everything they can to combat the disease and gave her every shot of living her life to the fullest. I had the chance to see her on stage as the ballerina she wanted to become someday. Thank you to Julie and Marcie for being there and Happy Birthday Marcie!

Thank you to Tracey Tarantino who organizes some of the biggest fashion shows around the Chicago area. She has also been a great friend of the Mrs. Illinois America family!

Celebrating Years of Hard Work in Elgin

2010-10-15T11:33:00.000-07:00

My husband and I spent the evening in Elgin at the Grand Victoria Casino. I was honored to emcee a night which celebrated the hard work of people and businesses that are a part of revitalizing Elgin's downtown neighborhood. You always hear about the spirit of communities, but rarely do you have the chance to experience it. The people of Elgin really do support their city and work diligently to keep Elgin progressing. Elgin has recently been in the midst of a rebirth and with the grants and the efforts of Elgin residents and businesses, it is coming alive again. The DNA President Tom Brockner and his wife were lovely as was the DNA Executive Director Tonya Hudson. And of course I must give a huge thank you to Promotions Coordinator, Jason Pawlowski, for inviting me to be a part of the 1940's gala.
1)Jason Pawlowski and super cute cigarette girls who sold raffle tickets
2)talking with some of Elgin's finest
3)And the award goes to...

Surprise!!!

2010-10-11T09:30:00.000-07:00

We flew to my parents' home in Arkansas as a surprise for my dad's 65th birthday. It was a great weekend spent with them and the kids had a great time exploring the yard and house. I swear, Johnny and Ali have never slept so well and I am sure Grandma Nana and Papa (and Duffy the dog) have never slept so well after we had gone. Happy Birthday Dad. We miss you all!

Shopping with Purpose

2010-10-06T19:19:00.000-07:00

Today we spent time at Lord and Taylor in Oakbrook for a day of FUN-raising. Shoppers were armed with special coupon books and there were also some really great sales offered to those who came to cash in on the day of deals. At the end of the day,wracking up all those charges paid off for local charities. Julie and Marcie Aceto were with me and Joe even stopped by for a bit. Julie is like the ambassador there as she knows just about everyone! After meeting some really great people, we headed off for an early dinner together.

Fall Has Arrived

2010-10-04T09:13:00.000-07:00

As the leaves fall, there is alot of cleaning out the closets here. Seems as if my children were busy playing and growing this summer as nothing fits. So, seven bags of clothes later, we were ready to make a trip to the YWCA and their shelter for women and children. It was also time to go find Ali her first ballet wear. The store was directly under the apartment where my husband once lived as a single bachelor fresh from law school! How strange to think years later, his baby girl would be back there getting ready for dance class.

An Invite for a Great Night

2010-10-01T13:31:00.000-07:00

Friday, October 01, 2010
Deadline to RSVP for 2010 DNA Awards Gala Extended

Last call!

If you have not yet submitted your RSVP for the 2010 Downtown Neighborhood Association Awards Gala - Presented by TranSystems, JCT Services, Inc. and Landmark Contractors, Inc., please do so now! Deadline to submit your RSVP or remit payment has been extended to Friday, October 8.

Individual tickets are $60 each ($50 for current DNA members) and sponsored tables of 8 are $600 each ($500 for current DNA members).

CLICK HERE TO RSVP > > >

It's going to be the Cat's Meow!

Please join us for a hotsy-totsy night on the town at the Downtown Neighborhood Association's Awards Gala on Thursday, October 14 from 6-9 PM at the Grand Victoria Casino at 250 S. Grove Avenue in downtown Elgin.

In typical DNA fashion, we will be celebrating in style with a 1940's-themed night of fun, festivities and fundraising. There will be a live jazz band, ballroom dancers, cocktail dresses (and cocktails), black ties, awards, accolades, an art gallery, and after-parties in downtown. Cocktail dresses and tuxedos are encouraged, and the best-dressed 1940's guy and gal will be rewarded.

Speaking of style, the DNA is also pleased to announce that our Special Guest Emcee for the Gala is Mrs. Illinois America 2010 Amy Gregorio.

Amy was crowned Mrs. Illinois America this past July. She recently returned from Tuscon, Arizona where she competed at the 2010 Mrs. America Pageant and finished 2nd runner up.

An Emmy nominated TV journalist, professionally known as “AJ Sterling”, she was voted ”Best Reporter,” by the Associated Press. Her stories have appeared on CBS, CNN, and Fox while working in Nashville, Indianapolis and Chicago. She has been honored to meet four US Presidents and a multitude of other leaders while reporting on many historical events.

Covering Super Bowls, riots and flying with the Red Barons have been good practice for life as a mom. She and her husband, John, have a 4 1/2 year old son and a 2-year-old daughter and live in Northfield with their cat Mac. When not running after the kids, she runs for charity and climbs Chicago ’s tallest buildings. Amy is also a court appointed child advocate for abused and neglected children through CASA and involved with other child-centered organizations

Photo Scavenger Hunt Contest

2010-09-30T12:39:00.000-07:00

Join in the photo scavenger hunt contest for Save Abandoned Babies Foundation of Illinois
October 1 – November 30, 2010

Contest participants will take a photograph of a Safe Haven sign already in place at a hospital, fire or police station. The picture may include multiple people, and/or appropriate costumes and props. Pictures will be uploaded to the Save Abandoned Babies Facebook page.
Five winners will be selected based on effort, creativity, and the number of “like” votes the photo receives on Facebook. Each winner will receive $100. Interpretation of the contest rules and the final determination of winners remains the sole discretion of the Foundation. Winners will be notified by December 15th, 2010.

Entries must be submitted to: photocontest@SaveAbandonedBabies.org

For more information, visit: www.SaveAbandonedBabies.org

www.facebook.com/SaveAbandonedBabies

Tell a friend. Talk about it. You might save a life.

Here Comes the Bride

2010-09-26T11:06:00.000-07:00

Two times I always cry, without question, are when a bride walks down the aisle and during the father-daughter dance. That was clear this weekend when our sitter, Monica, became Mrs. Geoff Kieres. Why did I not wear the waterproof mascara??

Luckily, John was out of the hospital and able to be my date as we celebrated our 6th anniversary at their wedding. Geoff is a paramedic and saves people all over Chicago, even if he finds himself in dangerous situations. He has also delivered a baby or two! And of course, we adore Monica and our children LOVE her also. She is a teacher by trade and we are blessed to have her as a part of our family. Their families have gotten to know our kids and, again, we are so lucky the children have such a fun extended family to visit. They are such a great couple! And to see her walk down the aisle in her beautiful gown with her father...John still doesn't understand why I was tearing up! Maybe I don't either.
It's a big step into the next phase of your life with someone else. There will be times of challenge and times much more rewarding than imagined. At times it can feel like a marathon and other times, like this weekend, you can't figure out how the last six years blew by so quickly.Yes, you learn so much about your partner, but even more about yourself. So here is a toast to our newlyweds. May they have more love and happiness than their hands and hearts can hold.

The Week (that felt like a year) That Was

2010-09-24T18:52:00.000-07:00

Crazy week! Our sitter is in the midst of getting married. Yay! However, my husband became very ill just as she needed to be gone getting the details wrapped up for the upcoming wedding weekend. Given are children are too young (in my opinion) to be hanging out in a hospital, it was a challenge to find last minute back-up so I could be with John. Thank you Gina! You are the best neighbor and a dear friend of ours!
My husband noticed some inflammation moving up his leg and only getting redder by the hour. Next thing we knew, he was being admitted to the hospital. Only one problem, finding an open bed at any of the area hospitals where his doctors practice. John needed IV antibiotics and an MRI to see how far the staph had already progressed. So, 6 hours later, after locating a bed, he still had no IV. Then, by 11pm, he had an IV, but no antibiotics. Hello? Anyone?
Meanwhile, his roommate needed his very loud and large family (were talking newborns and toddlers etc)to translate. Turns out from what we couldn't help but overhear through the curtain, he was there for heart pain. He is a diabetic who was on his ELEVENTH beer when he felt heat in his chest and decided to put down the brew. Luckily here in the US, he was treated for heart burn in spite of no insurance and was discharged after a nice pancake breakfast the next morning. Yes, it did tick me off. Can you tell?
That next morning we waited STILL for the MRI as they don't perform them after 11pm. At noon he was brought down for testing. He couldn't eat or drink until after the results were back. SO, at 5pm-5PM!!, he was told he could have that much needed coffee. Better than beer I guess;) And after a few days, John was allowed to return home feeling much better, but a little worn out by it all.